tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7906989179238604361.post654754976224400032..comments2023-10-28T08:38:58.422-07:00Comments on THE WAY WE ARE: WE ARE ALL JUST PASSING THROUGH....Debbiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09836655708421528876noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7906989179238604361.post-53168565137694025292012-04-17T17:16:28.651-07:002012-04-17T17:16:28.651-07:00I can relate on so many levels...not the grand kid...I can relate on so many levels...not the grand kids, but parenting and decisions that need to be made...my mother-in-law is 97 in good health, but needs checked on, my Dad suffering with the stage your mother is in and now completely deaf. It is the cycle of life and yet, it still doesn't make it easier. Knowing they know Christ brings a peace, but our flesh still cries out as the roles change from being their child to being their care giver...never easy on anyone. You are so blessed to have such precious relationships with everyone...not every one enjoys that.<br /><br />Blessings to you through this journey and praise God that you experience so much joy with all those grand children....God has truly given you strength for the journey.Janettessage.blogspot.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01262598732466380229noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7906989179238604361.post-2597306515924886522012-04-16T11:23:48.127-07:002012-04-16T11:23:48.127-07:00This is a hard time of life isn't it? To have ...This is a hard time of life isn't it? To have the joy of new life as you watch your parents fade. <br />I think that breaks my heart the most and then the scary part of knowing my kids will have to watch it with me.<br />Bittersweet, I think.<br />It was a fantastic storm wasn't it? <br />It is still muddy here. <br />It is hard to believe that it will be 90 by the weekend. <br />I know God has you in His hand and you are not alone. It is still hard though. That is when I call my girls and tell them I need a baby to hold. That always helps so much. <br />I will be praying for you and your families very hard decisions.Farm Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00998621464797636686noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7906989179238604361.post-81564952248026032622012-04-16T11:14:40.202-07:002012-04-16T11:14:40.202-07:00Oh Deb....what sad news. I've been walking th...Oh Deb....what sad news. I've been walking this same journey with my sweet Mama and the journey is very tough. It's only through Him that we can carry through.<br /><br />I must say that Hospice has been an absolute God send for my mama and family. My heart lurched the first time her docs recommended Hospice...Hospice=death to me and I didn't want to face it. But the Hospice that cares for my mom is absolutely wonderful and the Hospice Chaplain has become a wonderful family friend now.<br /><br />As far as the memory meds for your mom. My sis and I felt led to go forward with it. Mama has been on aricept for about 18 months and it has helped somewhat and we have no regrets about putting her on it.<br /><br />I'm keeping you, your mom and stepdad and family in my prayers. His strength will carry ya'll through. And His Wisdom will assist you make tough decisions along the journey.<br /><br />HE IS FAITHFUL!<br /><br />Love and Hugs!<br />JackieJackiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08471225291665810800noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7906989179238604361.post-85833539037693362532012-04-16T02:36:47.178-07:002012-04-16T02:36:47.178-07:00You have a way of pulling one's heart into wha...You have a way of pulling one's heart into what you are sharing, with the rain coming down, the soup on the stove, and the words in closing, "we are just passing through". I hurt for you and your family as you are facing the pain of watching your beloved parents facing all that they are. It definitely is a difficult place to be in life. Thanking for sharing it, so that we can offer prayer for you all when God brings you to mind.Just a little something from Judyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07436711032386582707noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7906989179238604361.post-25688399715514327412012-04-15T18:33:01.838-07:002012-04-15T18:33:01.838-07:00Thank God your parents have children willing to we...Thank God your parents have children willing to weigh the heavy matters. I think of you with this songm knowing the best is always yet to come:<br /><br />http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zplX5FDDuH0<br /><br />Blessings,<br />KathleenKathleen https://www.blogger.com/profile/05245926913888212148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7906989179238604361.post-15220587479470512012-04-15T14:47:24.752-07:002012-04-15T14:47:24.752-07:00So sorry to hear all of this. And your post was r...So sorry to hear all of this. And your post was really beautiful. The hope and faith you shared with us is what I needed to hear as my mom gets ready to face open heart surgery on Wednesday. You can't help but think of the bad, but you made me realize I should focus on the good that the Lord has done throughout our entire lives. Thank you Debbie!Lois Christensenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04769791435665904180noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7906989179238604361.post-43342999105191660802012-04-15T13:56:27.942-07:002012-04-15T13:56:27.942-07:00Debbie I am sending much love and hugs to you toda...Debbie I am sending much love and hugs to you today! I am so touched by this post, and relate in so many ways, though my mom is in great health, I do know that every day with our family whether with our older loved ones or our youngest is most valuable. As I was reading of your lunch with your friend, I was thinking of how Awesome our God is when he orchestrates our days, and how we are to weep with each other and laugh with each other in so doing we draw strength from one another. Thank you for sharing as there are so many of us that relate and are holding you and your family up before our heavenly Father. I always leave blessed and encouraged especially when you share of how you deal with life's challenges. May you continue to find His strength each day as you seek His will for your life. <br />Love,<br />SueSuehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14843762646877115013noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7906989179238604361.post-39273622727329510782012-04-14T11:46:04.321-07:002012-04-14T11:46:04.321-07:00Dearest Debbie, I hope your Saturday is going well...Dearest Debbie, I hope your Saturday is going well. I'm so sorry to hear about both your mom and step dad. I will say that Hospice is incredible, we used them for 7 mos at the end of my sister's battle. They are angels and I would call them to advise you all. Your mom reminds me of my mil; but sweet assurance that you know both will walk on Golden Streets. I think the Lord blesses us with new babies when we are to lose someone dear-it helps with the pain, doesn't make it go away but brings joy back in to our lives. I love seeing Sam, he is such a darling. I dreamt, last night, that my kim had a baby boy.<br />Have a great weekend.<br />Love, NoreenNanaNor'shttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03608980502430055753noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7906989179238604361.post-17191863728301289212012-04-14T08:27:06.376-07:002012-04-14T08:27:06.376-07:00I'm so sorry for this difficult time in your l...I'm so sorry for this difficult time in your life, Debbie. I'm praying for you, dear one. {{hug}}Kathy ... aka Nanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17626590048036292030noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7906989179238604361.post-36772060336252794112012-04-13T20:23:22.999-07:002012-04-13T20:23:22.999-07:00Debbie, I am so sorry to hear that your parents ar...Debbie, I am so sorry to hear that your parents are facing such hard times with their health. Your outlook is amazing. I shall be thinking of you.<br />KrisKrishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15578853096888320012noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7906989179238604361.post-10871592992430585712012-04-13T19:37:18.961-07:002012-04-13T19:37:18.961-07:00Awe Deb, I'm so sorry to hear all of this. My...Awe Deb, I'm so sorry to hear all of this. My eyes have welled with tears just thinking of what you might be going through. I never know what to say in times like these but I know your faith in God is strong. I just want you to know that you and your family will be in my prayers. Love you :)Kristihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10639398303004898248noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7906989179238604361.post-39853975456964179872012-04-13T19:26:12.595-07:002012-04-13T19:26:12.595-07:00Hi! Debbie, your post just sent my head and heart ...Hi! Debbie, your post just sent my head and heart whirling with the memories of my parents! I lost them 11 months apart a few years ago! and all that I can share with you is that GOD'S GRACE IS SUFFICIENT! He will give it in abundance when we TRUST HIM! but I do send prayers to you for this is part of our Journey and we are strengthened even if we don't feel it! Blessings of Peace!Nana's Nuggetshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02018685494024702809noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7906989179238604361.post-53794322892938726792012-04-13T18:29:13.043-07:002012-04-13T18:29:13.043-07:00Oh, Debbie this time in our lives is so hard. Hiu...Oh, Debbie this time in our lives is so hard. Hiubby and I only have my Dad left and of course this past year has been more than challenging than imaginable for him and us. And, I know, like me at their age, that our son and daughter never think about such times coming for me and Hubby. But, life does come full circle. Such a heartfelt post! hugs to you!Lea @ CiCis Cornerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09252011706208068724noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7906989179238604361.post-51294339186949181622012-04-13T16:18:27.747-07:002012-04-13T16:18:27.747-07:00Sounds as if you have the right attitude about wha...Sounds as if you have the right attitude about whatever must be faced. God is not going to leave us hanging. <br /><br />I do not know any other bald, chubby guy with drool on his chin who is anywhere near as cute as your darling Sam. I am sure that you just want to scoop him up!Veehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00618654361869856894noreply@blogger.com